If you are like many people, you are struggling with positive self esteem and/or participating in adaptive relationships. Not surprisingly, the two concepts are connected. It is hard, but beneficial to realize that without positive self esteem, one will not attract positive relationships. Positive relationships are attracted when our self esteem is high and we refuse to accept anything other then the best treatment by others. As humans, we decide who to invite into our lives. When our self esteem is low, we let people who also have low self esteem into our lives. When our self esteem is high, we only interact with others whose self esteem is high.
This calls into question, how does one raise their self esteem? Manifestation is a powerful act of accomplishing anything. There is an entire art to accessing your unconscious mind so that you can let new thoughts in; thoughts that override old thoughts and habits. There are rituals you can use to count down and get into your unconscious mind. However, you can also imagine your energy expanding from yourself, into your room, into your house, into your neighborhood, and so on until you see yourself in space beyond the view of all the galaxies. This space is the sweet spot for manifestation. From this place you can present yourself as a conscious, high self esteem being and call people who are similar beings into your life. Sounds freaky, right?! However, it is absolutely the best way to override your conscious fears and doubts. You can call in perfect work situations, clients, friends, partners, and anything else you can think of. Add music that feels meditative to you in this space, if you like.
If you practice this manifestation twice per day, every day, you will find it easier to be confident in whatever situation you find yourself in. Additionally, it will be easier to find that mindset in times of doubt and fear. Some helpful affirmations are: I am worthy to receive every good thing life has to offer. I am whole and complete within myself and love myself, my flaws, and my potential. I am worthy to have the best intimate relationships life has to offer, and I do.
As your self esteem heightens, you will find yourself saying goodbye to bad relationships, searching for new ones, and being completely fine on your own. You will say no when life tests you by offering a chance for you to become involved with people who have low self esteem. You will begin to feel good enough no matter what life throws at you.
One last point in the search for self esteem and fulfilling relationships, find your passion. When you live from your passion you are too busy to let negative things in your life. You begin to naturally desire to upgrade your skills and seek manifestation. Manifesting can be a whole package for living an outrageous, audacious, Unstoppable life!
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All the Best!
Founder of the Unstoppable Man Mindset