When working with someone who can help you, your first instinct may be to pick apart and criticize. You feel hurt and scared because success requires change.
You set out to mold your educated helpers into something more palatable to you. Unfortunately, foundational facts do not change. Loving yourself is the key to success. Love from your helpers is given through advice based on research as opposed to tradition and hearsay.
So how do you get through the resistance of self? The first step is to understand and control your emotions. The cost of not understanding and controlling your emotions is projection. You will see all of your weakness in others, even in those that can help. Once you have control of your emotions, you can ask questions that are not based out of fear, but interest. You will be able to trust your instincts and move towards a stable life.
Imagine being present in your relationships and having the ability to hear what others say without getting offended. Imagine understanding what your partner is going through and responding with love and compassion. Imagine hearing the fears and concerns of co-workers and management and not taking their words personally. This is all possible if you let go.
The direction you take in your journey is entirely up to you. You have to decide if you want to remain in the life patterns you are in now or find something deeper. You may need to work with a trained mindset coach or therapist. It will take courage and strength to do things differently. Once you go deeper, face your fears, and let go, you will become the hero of your life. The possibilities in your life will be endless.
Founder of the Unstoppable Man Mindset